End of my rope

My thirteen year old child has been my most difficult for years now.  Lately it hasn’t been any different in fact he ha gotten worse.  The other night, he snuck out of the house at 11 PM in his pajamas and bare feet and got into a long board accident involving a car.  He was fine but the long board is now in two pieces.

He steals and lies and beats on his brother and sister.  He stole $40.00 from me several months ago and today he took money out of his dad’s wallet and went to the store with out permission and bought soda and snacks.  He insists that he can’t remember doing thee things.  I am at the end of my rope end of rope

If I could afford it I’d send him to reform of military school but I can’t.  I just don’t know what to do anymore.